Dating man just separated
He must grieve, mourn and separate before he can maintain a healthy, loving, confident relationship with me.
I also know that he said the reason why it’s been so slow is because they are just in this robotic routine that has become very easy.
In some cases couples, because of children and other intricacies related to married life, are still deeply involved with their soon to be ex-spouses One of the most common temptations people fall for when a relationship is ending is the desire to find a new love - and to do so right now!Love is when TWO people are committed to each other by choice every single day, not when one person has tingly thoughts and can’t let go of a complicated situation. I couldn’t tell you if he’s going to go back to his wife, move out, or how quickly he’ll be able to move on.I can tell you that these are decisions that are dependent on what’s right for HIM, not what’s right for YOU.Often these people have been unhappy and missing love, companionship and sex for a longtime, and so there's a real pent-up, unmet need for love. And feeling urgency to find them when they’ve been denied to you for a long time is also normal. Moving too quickly into a new relationship is almost always a bad idea, and those relationships rarely last.Since I counsel men and women before, during and after a relationship or marriage, including through a divorce, I frequently see people dating when separated.