Dating multiple women same time
This realization came to me after I had actually succeeded in dating two women over the course of a weekend. I could probably think of some more reasons, but you should get my point by now. It will be one of the greatest experiences you will ever have. You must think in a new paradigm (although I hate such buzzwords). If this girl is your only hope for romance or sex, she becomes overly important to you, which makes you too careful about how you act around her. I think part of the problem is how a lot of us are brought up to think that we must see only one woman at a time, or we are perceived as cads or 'gasp', players. Everything sucks; you had two amazing guys, and now you've ended up with nothing. Except you wonder if he's also dating another woman and having just as great a time with her. Here you are, time flying by, and you haven't been able to choose. I'll come to those crossroads and everything will make sense.”Yet, without even realizing it, you may suddenly find yourself getting serious about both guys.
Haha.”Worse-case scenario: It's while you're having sex. I mean, it's hard enough to make the time to see one person, let alone two. The guy you're with at any given moment will be the one you like the most. One boyfriend thinks you were with your sister last night, so you fabricate anecdotes from your evening together and warn your sister in case he asks. If you don't come to a decision (AND QUICKLY), both relationships will get destroyed. Right, you wouldn't have been so conflicted in the first place.You end up so overwhelmed as you try to balance your evenings between your boyfriends -- AND make time for your friends. Eventually, all of the lies and the sneaking around will catch up to you. Within moments, your whole romantic life implodes, leaving you sad and alone. After a lot of tears and heavy guilt, you accept that you handled the situation in all of the wrong ways. You stop blaming the universe and realize that are the one who messed up. The situation feels hopeless until, suddenly, you're on a great first date, and that turns into a second. But you keep your options open; you commit to a date with someone else ... This hardly seems fair to you -- and to the two men you're seeing. You've spent so much time being a single girl -- only to be dealt two different aces at once.