End dating email
Long emails are fine…not for the first 3 or 4 times you communicate.
Long winded emails are a very good indication of chemistry and attraction, but when you start throwing out irrelevant information from the get-go, you are only scaring people away.
This email is a clear red flag to John that she might be somewhat self absorbed (perhaps a bit shallow) and atrocious at interpersonal communication skills.
I have known Sally for almost 10 years and she does not fit into one of those categories.
I would consider myself a master linguist and even I would have a hard time responding to that email. She basically treated him as if he was her personal diary.
The girl at the rental car place was taking her sweet time and the printer was malfunctioning so by the time I got out of there I was already 15 minutes late to class. In it, she describes her hectic day and how nobody/nothing was on time.
That nice…“John” was the brand name of a diary that she picked up at Staples instead of a live human being.
Had she been a member of one of the “lower end” online dating services, wherein all you have to go off of is a cheesy picture and a couple of paragraphs of “about me” then I could plausibly understand…not with e Harmony.
In a nutshell, before you are given the option to freely communicate with your matches on e Harmony, you must first go through something called “guided communication” wherein you have to choose 4 questions to send to your match.